Saturday, March 6, 2010

before pam shared a hospital room on the office, there was brooke and robin


the hospital stay. one of those bittersweet memories.

i never want to leave. there's something you leave behind when you leave the hospital. those first moments with your baby, the pampering (and prodding) of the nurses, the delightfulness of the first trips to the bathroom after you give birth and all the glamour that is involved with that.

anyway, i've always had a soft spot in my heart for those days spent in the hospital. in fact, i can't think about it too much or i cry. like last thursday, for instance. all the way home. . . crying. thinking about how i had just said goodbye to the fantasy-baby-hospital-life and said hello to reality.

and one of the reasons it was especially tough for me this time is because of the special coincidence that occurred during this hospital stay. i'm starting to cry just thinking about it now. great, now the screen is all blurry.

okay, i took a little break. i'm back.

anyway. . .

my good friend brooke and i had the same exact due date. crazy, right? we always joked about who would have their baby first and what a party it would be if we were in the hospital at the same time. the morning after i had sawyer, i get a text from brooke saying her water had just broken and that she was coming in. we exchanged lots and lots of texts, and i learned that her husband, brady had to stay home with their son, eli. (he had been sick with pneumonia and rsv and they didn't want to risk getting anyone else sick.) so after she checked in, i walked down the hall to pay a visit to my laboring friend.

brooke was a seven at that point and still talking and smiling. (i'm not sure if she's human.) so we visited a while and i told her i would stay with her if she wanted me to. i promised i wouldn't look, i would just sit in the corner and provide my presence.

so when the time was right, i left sawyer with the nurses and took my place in the scene of the birth of her second child. i stood behind her shoulder, texting her husband, and when the moment came, i held the phone out so he could be a part of the moment. it was such a privilege to be there. to be there for my friend when her husband could not.

the nurses couldn't believe that we were such good friends and at the hospital at the same time. in fact, they asked us to share a recovery room . . . which we gladly did. i cannot imagine sharing a room with just anyone, but with brooke, it was a total postpartum party. we watched the olympics, ate hospital food, commiserated over after-birth pains, and provided the nurses with lots of entertainment. (we're pretty funny.)

she was able to witness the drama of naming sawyer, and i got to witness brady's first visit with his new son.

i am so grateful for brooke. we have bonded over many things this past year and a half, sharing the "husbands-in-grad-school" experience. (not to mention the fact that our husbands are so alike, it scares us.) this was truly a unique, special experience for me and i'm glad that she is a part of such an important memory.

brooke, we'll always have cayuga medical center.

best picture ever.

14 comments:

brooke said...

robin....i really don't know what to say...
except that when the midwife asked me if there was a friend or someone i would want there with me i never imagined someone actually being there!
but i can't imagine sharing those 'oh so glamorous moments' with anyone else!
you made me cry and my mom and im pretty sure brady....
but i swear i never in all my sleepless delusions nursed your baby...ever.
whew...

brooke said...

i'm so glad i was closest to the camera!
and robin...
thanks.
for everything.

aubry. said...

man! this totally makes me wish i could have given birth just now. with you... and even brooke... by my side.

like, i missed a party... with midwives.

but i WAS there for the naming sawyer trauma. that was awesome.

Carrie said...

THAT is such a great story. Glad you guys had eachother. And glad you didn't have to share your postpartum-ness with just anyone.

Fulkerson Clan said...

what a special experience, thanks for sharing your story with us, it made me smile!

Bridget said...

Wow, that is really neat. What a great story!

B-Rad said...

I noticed a box of Red Vines on the tray next to your bed. I thought you said you were going to give those up as soon as you had your baby.

melanie said...

now that is the best Ithaca hippie story I've heard, ever! you guys rock.

abby said...

this is the best story ever.

Hayter Family said...

i'm with melanie..you ladies are true ithacans. hippies even. i love it. awesome story. awesome memories. love you guys!

Corrina Baker said...

I REALLY know what you mean about hospital fantasy land. I've been back twice just to stroll the corridors and reminisce. You are so not done having babies!

sweetpagene said...

well done. and not only did i not know your mandolin's name was mario, i did not know you are the proud owner of a mandolin. does josh play the banjo? do you guys have your own bluegrass band? i can just see parker with a harmonica and little macy puffing away on the jug. what a happy picture.

Kirsten said...

awesome.

and just seeing the picture evokes memories. i've given birth at three different hospitals, and they all have the same beautiful gowns. and baby blankets. and little side table things that always get in the way and are never the right height. almost makes me want to do it all again.

cindy. said...

i'm with corrina, you're not done having babies. :)

i can't think of anything profound to say . . . everyone's already said how awesome the story is 13 times. but it really is. i got a little teary eyed myself. and it made me excited to give birth . . . sometime. i'll get this wedding behind me before i start thinking like that!

sure love you, robin.